{"id":252,"date":"2020-02-19T18:13:42","date_gmt":"2020-02-19T16:13:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ineselietaviete.lv\/?p=252"},"modified":"2022-03-03T10:38:14","modified_gmt":"2022-03-03T08:38:14","slug":"akcenti-par-kuriem-sobrid-ir-jaruna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ineselietaviete.lv\/index.php\/2020\/02\/19\/akcenti-par-kuriem-sobrid-ir-jaruna\/","title":{"rendered":"Akcenti, par kuriem \u0161obr\u012bd ir j\u0101run\u0101"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Sarunas par seksualit\u0101ti nereti atkl\u0101j interesantu paradoksu \u2013 mums ir pieejams milz\u012bgs inform\u0101cijas daudzums par seksualit\u0101ti un seksu\u0101laj\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m (\u0161is jaut\u0101jums nav tabu<\/em> t\u0113ma nevien\u0101 no sievie\u0161u \/ v\u012brie\u0161u \u017eurn\u0101liem) un t\u0101dej\u0101di veidojas stereotips, ka visi visapk\u0101rt<\/em> run\u0101 un nodarbojas ar seksu… Tom\u0113r taj\u0101 pat laik\u0101 \u2013 dzi\u013cas, atkl\u0101tas un re\u0101las sarunas par \u0161o int\u012bmo jomu joproj\u0101m nenotiek. Ir gr\u016bti run\u0101t par to… k\u0101 patie\u0161\u0101m ir. Un v\u0113l gr\u016bt\u0101k run\u0101t par celib\u0101tu k\u0101 apzin\u0101tu izv\u0113li attur\u0113ties no seksu\u0101l\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m, jo tas m\u016bsdienu seksualiz\u0113taj\u0101 kult\u016br\u0101 nereti tiek asoci\u0113ts ar kaut ko anorm\u0101lu un varb\u016bt pat kaunpilnu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jaunais tabu<\/em> m\u016bsdienu sabiedr\u012bb\u0101 ir nevis br\u012bvas seksu\u0101l\u0101s attiec\u012bbas, bet br\u012bvi izv\u0113l\u0113ts celib\u0101ts, kas iek\u013cauj attur\u0113\u0161anos no seksu\u0101l\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m. Reli\u0123isku un ne tikai reli\u0123isku mot\u012bvu d\u0113\u013c.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Seksu\u0101l\u0101\nrecesija<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gatavojoties otrajam<\/a> semin\u0101ram no cikla “Seksualit\u0101te un gar\u012bgums” (iepriek\u0161\u0113jais<\/a> notika 2019. gada oktobr\u012b), pap\u0113t\u012bju statistiku par izmai\u0146\u0101m sabiedr\u012bb\u0101 p\u0113d\u0113jo 30 gadu laik\u0101. Laul\u012bbu \u0161\u0137ir\u0161anas skaits Amerik\u0101 (\u012bpa\u0161i 50+ vecumgrup\u0101) ir dubultojies, sal\u012bdzin\u0101jum\u0101 ar 1990-tajiem.<\/a> Pieaug s\u016bdz\u012bbas par seksu\u0101lo attiec\u012bbu tr\u016bkumu laul\u0101to vid\u016b (sexless mariages<\/em>), bet v\u0113l jo vair\u0101k p\u0101rsteidz statistikas dati, kas liecina, ka ar\u012b jaunie\u0161i, pret\u0113ji visp\u0101rpie\u0146emtajam viedoklim par seksa pieejam\u012bbu, ar seksu partnerattiec\u012bb\u0101s nodarbojas maz\u0101k nek\u0101 vi\u0146u vec\u0101ku paaudze. P\u0113t\u012bjumos Amerik\u0101, Jap\u0101n\u0101 un cit\u0101s augst\u0101ku labkl\u0101j\u012bbu sasniegu\u0161\u0101s valst\u012bs tiek signaliz\u0113ta seksu\u0101lo attiec\u012bbu recesija<\/a> jeb lejupsl\u012bde<\/a> sabiedr\u012bb\u0101. Seksu\u0101l\u0101s attiec\u012bbas jaunie\u0161u vid\u016b tiek uzs\u0101ktas v\u0113l\u0101k (par atvieglojumu vec\u0101kiem, pedagogiem un ar\u012b Bazn\u012bcas p\u0101rst\u0101vjiem!), tom\u0113r iemesls, k\u0101p\u0113c t\u0101 notiek, visdr\u012bz\u0101k nav iepriecino\u0161s \u2013 jaunie\u0161iem ir aizvien gr\u016bt\u0101k sasniegt intimit\u0101ti un savstarp\u0113ju tuv\u012bbu attiec\u012bb\u0101s, l\u012bdz ar to \u0161\u012bs dzi\u013c\u0101s vajadz\u012bbas viet\u0101 ien\u0101k virtu\u0101lie libido aizvietot\u0101ji (pornogr\u0101fija, sekss internet\u0101, masturb\u0101cija utml.). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\"
Uztveres k\u013c\u016bdas par seksa bie\u017eumu sabiedr\u012bb\u0101. IPSOS p\u0113t\u012bjums “Perils of Perception 2018”<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Iemeslu izmai\u0146\u0101m sabiedr\u012bbas seksualit\u0101t\u0113 un seksu\u0101lo vajadz\u012bbu apmierin\u0101\u0161an\u0101, protams, ir \u013coti daudz.  Sekss vienatn\u0113 ar sevi, \u013coti trauslas attiec\u012bbas \u0123imen\u0113 \u2013 p\u0101rapr\u016bp\u0113jo\u0161i “helikoptera” vec\u0101ki un vienlaikus jebkuru attiec\u012bbu nepast\u0101v\u012bgums, sliktas (un \u013coti sliktas) seksu\u0101l\u0101s pieredzes, Tindera<\/em> un citu iepaz\u012b\u0161an\u0101s t\u012bklu pied\u0101v\u0101t\u0101s “mir\u0101\u017eas” un daudz kas cits. Bailes un kauns… atkailin\u0101ties. Visvair\u0101k \u2013 emocion\u0101li. Varb\u016bt izdosies par to vair\u0101k uzrakst\u012bt, jo t\u0113ma, manupr\u0101t, ir \u013coti interesanta un aktu\u0101la.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iesp\u0113jams, m\u0113s aizvien v\u0113l k\u013c\u016bdaini dom\u0101jam, ka visi citi mums apk\u0101rt nodarbojas ar seksu daudz bie\u017e\u0101k, nek\u0101 tas ir paties\u012bb\u0101…<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Varb\u016bt m\u0113s devalv\u0113jam seksualit\u0101ti? Varb\u016bt tom\u0113r ir runa par to, ka mums pietr\u016bkst izpratnes, ka seksualit\u0101te nav vien\u0101dojama ar seksu un sekss nav vien\u0101dojams ar seksualit\u0101ti? Tie\u0161i tur, atbr\u012bvojoties no \u0161\u012bs nepareizi lietot\u0101s vien\u0101d\u012bbas z\u012bmes<\/em>, iesp\u0113jams, sl\u0113pjas daudz cilv\u0113cisk\u0101s br\u012bv\u012bbas un ar\u012b kaisles dz\u012bvot. Dz\u012bvotgribas. Jo tie\u0161i kaisles dz\u012bvot visbie\u017e\u0101k pietr\u016bkst m\u016bsdienu jaunie\u0161iem, neraugoties uz to, ka iesp\u0113ju nekad nav bijis vair\u0101k k\u0101 tagad.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sarunas par seksualit\u0101ti nereti atkl\u0101j interesantu paradoksu \u2013 mums ir pieejams milz\u012bgs inform\u0101cijas daudzums par seksualit\u0101ti un seksu\u0101laj\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m (\u0161is jaut\u0101jums nav tabu t\u0113ma nevien\u0101 no sievie\u0161u \/ v\u012brie\u0161u \u017eurn\u0101liem) un t\u0101dej\u0101di veidojas stereotips, ka… More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-252","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pastorala-konsultesana","category-rarzi-pastoralais-centrs"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ineselietaviete.lv\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/252","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ineselietaviete.lv\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ineselietaviete.lv\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ineselietaviete.lv\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ineselietaviete.lv\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=252"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/ineselietaviete.lv\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/252\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":929,"href":"https:\/\/ineselietaviete.lv\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/252\/revisions\/929"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ineselietaviete.lv\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=252"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ineselietaviete.lv\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=252"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ineselietaviete.lv\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=252"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}